Sue wrote: “…it was time to grow up and be deep. … Time to get serious. No more flirting. I would surely get higher approval ratings from God if I let go of the shallow me and dove into meaningful relationships and ministry. … What would it have looked like to have been urged into the future by an awareness of God’s love for and pleasure in me? I’m starting to get a taste for that. … God loves me.”
Russ wrote in his blog “Identity”: “I am starting to think that God wants me to take joy in the intimacy with God outside of the context of an awareness of my sin and his actions in redeeming me. I am starting to think that God wants me to take joy in him, and that sometimes in that joy I will be blissfully unaware of the terrible realities of my sin. I have tasted of the sweetness of just enjoying him without purpose or justification. I could feel how much he delighted in me, and I delighted in him as well.”
Someone wise encouraged me to be myself – offer myself as I have been created without apology (or fear). It seems that Sue and Russ have been given the same advice. In yesterday’s sermon Eric posed the question why we choose to be in darkness, rather than stepping into the light. I think it’s fear who invites us to linger (or step) in the darkness. Fear is sneaky, ugly and clever. Fear tells us we’re unworthy of genuine happiness and the only way to have any kind of fun is to engage in sinful behavior. We’re already bad, how could we possibly make it worse?? And when we do experience lightness of spirit, then it must stem from something bad.
But I found that hidden within is this person who longs to live out loud, be silly, and disregard convention. And somewhere within reach there is this irresistible, faintly tangible source of contagious joy. I feel like God is inviting us – inviting me (me?) to dip a bucket into this iridescent fluid called joy and spill it all over the place. But then my ears listen to the whisperings of dusty-gray, prune-faced fear. “They’re looking at you funny,” he says. “Real adults have a good time quietly, in muted earth tones.” Or: “It is rude to be happy in the presence of someone who is struggling in life.” “Joy and abandon belong to the children.” Or worse yet: “You belong to the suffering Christ – so be a suffering Christian!” In the back of my mind chimes the Christmas carol “Joy to the world”. Now I know that it’s been lies I’ve listened to. He came so we may have ‘abundance of life’; doesn’t that imply joy as well? But how do I reconcile giddy joy with all the suffering and struggling that befalls us all? I suppose joy is not always giddy. It seems to also be the fuel that propels us through the hard places where we would be destroyed without it. It must be the expression of love. God’s love.
Like Russ and Sue before me I come to realize that guilt-free joy is God’s message to us. Now when I feel it I can know that He just whispered into my heart: “I love you.” No 'if', 'when', or 'but'. I am free to receive this joyful feeling, without hiding it as in shame. I can return the message, “and I love You.” I know He heard me and is as glad to hear it as I am. |